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  • Don’t Focus on the Highlight Reel

    Don’t Focus on the Highlight Reel

    Everyone has a highlight reel. You see it every time you log into Facebook or Instagram.

    It’s the beautiful oceanside vacation. The happy baby and her beautiful mother. The flawless selfie. The winning soccer game.

    It’s called the highlight reel because it only captures the very best moments.

    But there is a lot that goes on that doesn’t make it into the Instagram feed.

    The delayed flight. The lost luggage. The fighting family. The screaming baby at 1am, 2:15am, 3:30am, and 4:15am. The 25 not so perfect selfie’s that were deleted from the camera roll. The frantic parents eating fast food in the car on the way to the third soccer game that weekend.

    None of those are Insta-worthy.

    You don’t see the mess, so you mistakingly believe that it doesn’t exist. But it does.

    Nobody posts pictures of their credit card bills, their defiant teenager or their acne.

    But that’s real life. And it’s ok.

    It’s fun to scroll through and see the wonderful things that are happening in our friends lives. Yes, their vacation was fun, the baby is adorable, your friend is beautiful, and the winning goal at the soccer game was spectacular. It’s all true, but as they say in the courtroom, there is the truth…and there is the whole truth.

    You Instagram feed? Not the whole truth.

    Don’t compare your take 1, take 2 and take 3 to someone else’s perfectly filtered final cut. I promise you, they left a lot on the cutting room floor.

    A LOT.

    Enjoy their highlight reel. Like it, love it, and give them all the support in your comments. Then meet them for lunch and talk about the truth…the whole truth.

    Photo by Jordan Whitfield on Unsplash

  • 8 Great Summer Reads for Kids – 2017

    8 Great Summer Reads for Kids – 2017

    One of the greatest gifts my mother gave me was a love of reading. When I was a kid, we didn’t have air conditioning, so we would spend a lot of time enjoying the air conditioning at our local library. I would walk in looking for relief and walk out with a bag filled with over 20 books.

    And I would devour them.

    When I heard my daughter read for the first time, my face lit up and I said to her, “the entire world just opened up to you. You can now learn about ANYTHING.” Teaching your child to love learning begins by finding books that they get excited about. I put together this list of books that we treasure in our home and that I hope will help your kids to make their summer (and the rest of their lives) a bit more magical.

    Harry Potter and The Sorcerer’s Stone  – J.K. Rowling

    If your child hasn’t been introduced to the Harry Potter series, summer is a great time to start. Many kids grow a lifelong interest in reading that begins by getting to know one young wizard. If you read a chapter a night, you will have magic in your home for the rest of the summer.

     

     

     

    Wonder – R.J. Palacio 

    “He’s just a kid. The weirdest-looking kid I’ve ever seen, yes. But just a kid.”

    What a beautiful story about the struggles that all kids go through. It’s a story of judgement and kindness, cruelty and friendship. It’s a story about every kid just wanting to be a kid.

    Kids are so frequently compared to each other. This book reminds us to accept every person exactly as they are and to understand that underneath every mask, beautiful or not, is a kid…just a kid

     

    Ada Twist, Scientist – Andrea Beaty

    If you are a fan of Rosie Revere, Engineer (which is one of my favorite kids books ever), then you will want to get the latest book in the series that encourages kids to grow their interest in STEM. In this book Ada Twist uses science to solve problems and learn about her world. I can’t recommend this series of books strongly enough. I adore them.

     

    Where the Sidewalk Ends – Shel Silverstein

    Is it possible that someone you’ve never met can change your life forever? In the case of Shel Silverstein, I would answer with a resounding yes. I was given a copy of Where the Sidewalk Ends when I was a kid and it was the spark that turned me into a writer. I would read and read and read all of his books. If your kids haven’t been introduced to him yet, I encourage you to give him a try.

     

     

    Hidden Figures, Young Readers Edition – Margot Lee Shetterly

    You and your kids may have seen Hidden Figures, the movie. If you did, you know how inspiring the movie is. If you want to keep the discussion going, this book is a great way to keep talking about the important impact that African-American women had on our space program.

     

     

    The Boxcar Children – Gertrude Chandler Warner

    Sometimes it’s great to curl up with a classic during the summer slowdown. The Boxcar Children books are a great way to build a love of reading. Your kids will be learning and growing without even knowing it as they flip through the pages of these wonderful stories.

     

     

    Escape from Mr. Lemoncello’s Library – Chris Grabenstein

    If your kids like puzzles or books or mysteries, this is a fun read. A group of kids are locked in a library and need to solve puzzles in order to win a contest. It’s a little like a modern day Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with all the fun elements that make kids want to read “just one more chapter.”

     

     

    The Magic Tree House – Mary Pope Osborne

    I’m going to end my list with the greatest selling children’s books of all time. We never get tired of climbing up into the magic tree house to see where we will travel next. There are tons of books in the series, so just pick one and go on a summer vacation without ever leaving your home. These books are treasures.

     

     

     

    Image credit:
    Mi PHAM


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